I Like my Best Friend

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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Male
I've discovered I like my best friend. I don't want to because I'm afraid that if i start acting unusaul whenever we hang out, that she'll notice and then find out i like her. It's not that i'm embarrassed about it, it's just that i enjoy being her friend so much and i'd hate it if anything changed between us, and destroyed our friendship. How can i stay friends with her without changing how we are already?

I've also got another thing on my mind about this girl. What if by some crazy marvel, i decided i liked her enough to ask her out? I just recently found out that my best guy friend likes her too. I don't want to get hurt asking her out and i don't want to hurt my friend if she says yes. What should i do?

If you could answer both of my preidcaments that would be great but if u can only answer one, that's great too so either way, please answer as soon as possible. Thanx.

User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
Ask her out

Yea I got an advice for you the same thing happened to me
you just need to tell your friend that you like her and he will proably understand so just ask her out and every thing will be beeter with you and you girl friend and if your gonna break up with her just say sorry lets stay friend and yea o yea and once your break up with your girl friend your other friend is gonna ask her out right away.

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