I feel really jealous of the thought of any girls even talking to him

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I met my bf working abroad, we worked in the same bar. After 1 month, we moved in together and at 4 months he proposed and we got engaged. I know this is right as I truly love him. I have a big problem with jealousy now though. We're back in England and I have moved to London to be with him, but i am so jealous of his ex and any previous girls he's been close to. And also, now we have to get seperate jobs and will have to spend time apart, I feel really jealous of the thought of any girls even talking to him, even though i know he loves me and wouldn't do anything. Please help me, this is eating me up, i'm often in tears over it and I know that it upsets him.

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Build up trust

True Love, is about you have to know he only loves you and that is how it is going to be. You are probably like me, have very little confidence. If this is the guy you are going to be with the rest of your life, you have to relax when he talks to girls, and give him space. The reason for that is you jealousy won't get to you. you may not believe it yet, but it worked for me. Your gonna have to build up trust with him.

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