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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Male
I am 17 year old average pakistani college student living in london where i am surrounded by pretty white girls. well i am silly sometimes, definitely dumb like people say, ugly and stuff like that.
Ive never had a girlfriend in my whole life and the problem is because of my skin colour. I always see black girls and asian girls but on the street but i dont really pay attention to them that much.
i have asked out a girl before. she turned me down because of my skin colour, it kind of hurt but i kind of got over it,it knocked my confedince out a lot, it badly upset me, i really liked her.
I havent actually fallen in love, i know why i like white girls alot is because they're so sexy, other guys must feel the same as me. and i want to say hi and make a conversation but then what happenes if the girl doest like me and what happens if its because of me being 'PAKI'. i dont think i can take that type of rejection. i am very shy with no confidence at all, ive never had luck in finding someone who i want and i dont think that will happen. All my friends, even my white friends have said i have bad taste but i cant really change it.
could i be cursed or something? could there be another way to approch a blonde girl?, a girl at collge i dont know at all.
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
Im only 14 and i already have a girl friend, but i got it in a wierd way. I liked that girl and one day she suddenly gave me a note saying she liked me. I asked her to the dance that was 5 days away. We danced and it felt good
Im sorry man i think you have no chance to get a girlfriend
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