I get to know more things about him and get to know him a lot more better.

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I'm am very confused about my love life. I don't know if I like him or love him or if its just a crush. He's one of my best friends. Before I knew that I felt these feelings for him I used to talk to him with confidence. Now, for the past week ... I get shy and nervous when I talk to him and thats wierd! Last week I was mad at him because he made my friend mad and then he asked me why was I mad at him and I said that I wasn't mad at him for what he did and its just that if I told him he wouldn't understand. So, he wrote me a letter saying that he wants to fix things between us. So I wrote him back and told him that I had feelings for him and since he's my bestfriend I didn't want our friendship to get ruin'd. He responded and said that he also does'nt want our friendship ruin'd. Me and him ended up leaving this as friends. Although, ever since I wrote him back we've been writing to each other partically everyday and if we have time twice a day and this is a good thing because I get to know more things about him and get to know him a lot more better.

My Question is ... What can I do about this situation? Because I'm still "inlove" with him even tough he practically rejected me. But still, we've come closer in a way by writing to each other and thats one thing that has helped me.

User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
Love appears in strange places

well love appears in weird places you know and a friend you can realy on becuse he knows what you like and what you dont like

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