I Want to Make Him Like Me

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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
I am not sure how to make this guy like me the way I like him.He's a cowboy (so this might be difficult).I try to dress like everyone else, flirt with him ( I'm a little shy and ask stupid questions), I even hang out with the "popular" crowd.

What does it take????? HELP ME!

User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Be true to yourself

Unfortuneately, there is no certain way to make a guy fall for you. It just happens. Try getting to know him, and getting to know his freinds. Then, when you're more comfortable around him, start to increase your flirting and physical contact (ex. holding hands, hugging, ect.) If he seems uncomfortable with that, don't push it. Back off with your flirting, and start from the bottom again. Also, ask him questions about his intrests, questions that you know he has an answer for. This shows him that you're interested.

There is a chance that if you end up dating him, there is going to be a break up. Don't ever put your whole self-worth into wether or not he says yes, and don't change yourself into someone that you don't like to be. Being true to yourself should always come first.

I hope this helped =)

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