I Like Her, She Likes Someone Else

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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
I am having a problem with the relationship between me and a close friend of mine. I have always had a crush on this girl since I have met her. She is 2 years younger than me (I am 21), but she likes a guy who lives over 3 hrs away; she hardly gets to see him, and he is 10 years older than her. She has told me that she doesn't want to be anything more than just friends with me, and her friendship does mean a whole lot to me, but I have trouble just letting go. I dont' know how to act around her now, but I dont' want her to think I'm trying to avoid her by staying away.

I would love to be able to just move on and the two of us just stay friends, but I can't help but to believe that there could be more between the two of us. I guess I am looking for any helpful advice as to what I should be doing about this. Please let me know what you think.

Stuck in Love.

User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Never give up

Well my advice is pretty mnch the same.Don't let someone be in your way of love keep tring never give up.I to have the same problem as you but I never give up and now he likes me a little.I knew him for 11 yrs.don't worry yel get her.

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