I had no male role models and at age 5 believed all men were scum

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I have been with my boyfriend for a short period of time but all in all I care about him deeply although we are both young and we talk about marriage and a life together we both agree we want to take things slow super slow I call it to make a long story as short as I can, my boyfriend is a sweet heart he says all the right things at the right times and he has a very forgiving heart I say things for meaness sometimes because of nothing I grew up around unhealthy relationships and fighting was an everyday thing I had no male role models and at age 5 believed all men were scum now there is a man who doesnt fit into that category he is so nice i find myself pushing him away just so I can say I knew he would leave I don't know what to do I want to change I just dont know where to begin I am on bended knees and I am asking for anything you think could help me I would be more than thankful

User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female

Im having tha same problem i got a guy that is treatin me so good but ive been hurt so much in tha past i judge him for someone he aint.... But i keep thinkin he is cuz of every guy i been with either leave's me or cheat's.... But it's tha guy's fault's they be makin it this way... But i really do love this guy and i want it to work!! We just got in a fight today cuz of this ish!! But i gotta stop lookin at him like he everyone else or i will lose him!!

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