He Won't Ask Me Out

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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
I like this guy and he likes me too, but he won't ask me out. We flirt all the time, and he still won't make his move. Why is that? Is that even normal?

User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
treat you like a princess

I'm sure you like this guy a lot, and I completely understand your frustration, and this what I've learned from past experience,friends, and reading is he is either still trying to get to know you, or he is just not that into you. Yeah I know that may sound harsh, but the truth hurts sometimes. I read this great book called "he's just not that into you" by Greg Behredt and liz tuccullo, maybe you've heard of it. It is the bible to udnerstanding guys. Anyway. I remember this one chapter in the book called "He's just not that into you if he is not asking you out" The chapter gives a bunch of different excuses...that guys would use on a girl...and it all leads to one thing...If this guy really likes you...he will ask you out. Guys will do whatever it takes to make themselves happy. And perhaps...ur just not what he's looking for. Sorry sweetheart...its not that there is anything wrong with you...I'm sure you're smart and beautiful...just not to him. If he hasn't popped the question yet...I say u should, move on...and find a guy who will treat you like a princess and ask you out.

Much Love,

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