I am sure everything I heard is true, I just want him to tell me the truth

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I have a boyfriend, now my fiancee, who owns half a bar with someone. Our relationship was going well, til one day he decides to treat me terrible. I would go up to his bar, and it would sometimes take him 4 hours to even say hi. And he didn't treat me like I was with him at all!! I noticed him and the bartender getting pretty flirty in front of me and I started getting my womenly gut feelings. Then, I started hearing from people that they were dating and other things. I even heard it from the other owners girlfriend. Everytime I ask him about it, he blows up. Lies to my face about it. My best friends brother even saw him!! We have been together for 2 years and have an 11 month old daughter together. I have been nothing but sweet,faithful caring, and trusting to him. I am sure everything I heard is true, I just want him to tell me the truth. I am hurting bad, I can't sleep at night, how do I get him to tell me the truth???

User Submitted Advice from a 41-50 year old Female
dump him

Get rid of him! Whats the point of staying with someone who makes you miserable. Find someone to make you happy

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