well i'm am 15 and i'm seeing a 38 year old man

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well i'm am 15 and i'm seeing a 38 year old man. i really want to be with him but there is the age thing. my mom knows about him and his age but she don't understand. she stuck on the age thing. she wont listen to me about him she says he is to old. please help how do i get her to understand and accept me and him as a couple. she knows he is a wonderfull person but it just his age that bothers her. do you have any advice for me on how to get her to accept.
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He is too old for you

Sorry to say this but, your mother will never change her mind no matter how old you are. My parents did the same thing to me and i was an adult. I was 22 going out with someone who i was so inlove with and he was 32. They hated it. They said older men use us younger woman but the thing is only you know him, she doesnt'. UHM you are a bit young though going out with someone that old, Im not sure thats a good thing. You shouldn't, but just be careful. I think that is gross, he is way to old for you.

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