I have stopped trying to talk to her(for about a week or so)
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old MaleOk there is this girl i like a lot, and we've been pretty good friends for a while now and i would sometimes get the feeling she likes me too. but she has been talking to this other guy now and she seems to really like him(she's even thinking about dating him) and one or two times before when i tried to talk to her she would ignore me or barely say anything and walk away to talk to the other guy. and because of this i have stopped trying to talk to her(for about a week or so) so i can stop having these thoughts but it's not really working. the reason i'm doing this is because i recieved some advice, they told me if she starts taking you for granted then stop talking to her and she will come to you and it knid of worked she tried talking to me a couple of times but these last two days she has not said a thing to me. so what should i do? am i doing the right thing? i really do like her . please help. thanks
RomanceClass.com AdviceKeep trying to talk with her.
See if you can build a friendship with her. If you can do that, then there is a chance of making it more than a friendship.
My advice is to not stop talking with her... it sends her mixed messages which is not good in a relationship.
Good Luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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Ignored her
Be friends
