she shared everthing to me and was very honest except about her budding relationship

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Thanx for your reply

I got two response on my problem. You've suggested me to talk more with her and see whether she is giving honest information or not. But now we both know the situation that she has boyfriend and I like her still.She may not like if i call her again and again. Would it be wise idea to call her or disturb her. And if at all i call how to keep good impression and relation when everthing is disclosed and i can't do anything much from my side. What all things should i discuss so tht she vill feel more comfortable and close to me. Coz i've already told her we can still talk like before we used to but sometimes i used to express my feeling during the conversation earlier which it not possible now. So advice me how do i proceed and make her feel tht i'm not jealous rather i'm generous even though i still have feeling for her...I really hesitate to call her..or sms.I want to her to be very free flow with me. Well she shared everthing to me and was very honest except about her budding relationship and sometimes she was also talking like as if she has some sort of feeling over me. But later when i asked her she said there was nothing like that i took it very lightly coz i knew she is engaged
Just tell me how do i keep good relationship with her.what all things should i discuss with her so that she vill come closer to me.
waiting for your reply and one more thing she is just 19 and i'm 25 . So i think she is not that matured like me. So whatever she is doing is it teen age infatuation. Is her relationship is serious with that guy.
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It's too early to know if her relationship is serious with that guy.

To get her to come closer to you, be a sympathetic ear for her feelings in all areas of life. Don't dwell on your relationship other than to remind her that you care for her. The more she talks with you the better, but don't overdo it since that might drive her away. You will have to be the judge of how much is too much.

Share your feelings too about family, friends, work, etc. She will enjoy hearing your voice.

Good luck!

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