my parents don't know i'm having sex with him and so therefore won't get me birth control

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Me and my guy just had sex for the first time last week. And i'm fine with it and i don't regret it kuz i really love him and we were careful. What i wanted to ask you was some things about condoms. I'm terrified about getting pregnant, and my parents don't know i'm having sex with him and so therefore won't get me birth control. We were safe but i'm just still a little worried about some things. this is a little embarrassing so i'm just gonna straight out ask them.
What are the odds of me getting pregnant if we alwaz use protection?
What are the odds of the condom breaking?
And what are the odds of semen coming over the top of it into me?
Sorry i know these are kinda a lot of questions and you are busy but i really need this help. and i don't know who else to ask.
Scared of Pregnancy Advice
Check out the following webpage which has everything you want to know about condoms:

I can't add much to that.

I will mention, however, that parents can surprise you. If they know you are sexually active they may be eager to get you birth control pills. Someone close in my family just recently got pills from her parents.

Maybe you could bring up the subject by saying "Suppose I were having sex, would you want me to be on the pill?" Parents are realistics most of the time... you know your parents better than I do.

Best of luck to you!

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at

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