Long Distance Crush
Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Female
I have a crush on my boss. He lives in another country and comes two times a year to the US to visit his family. He's very polite with me and I have caught him looking at me.
On valentines day I sent him a friedship card, and he respond back to me and said that he did not have a date to celebrate with. So I responded back and said that we could have a date long distance. He agreed with it.
I don't know how I can find out if he feels the same way I do.
Please can you help me to find out if he has a crush on me too? What do I have to do to find out?
Long distance relationships are always challenging. It's hard to know exactly how someone feels just based on the way they type messages. Still, the fact that he is the one who told you he didn't have a date, therefore leading you into talking more about a date, is very encouraging. And him agreeing to the long distance date is a great sign.
I'd keep that pattern up. Tell him that St. Patrick's Day is coming up and you don't have anyone to celebrate with. See if you can find fun holidays to celebrate together. The more that you do that sort of thing, the closer you will get. Then the next time he visits hopefully you can go on a real date!
-- from Lisa
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com