How can I even look at him?

Visitor's Question from a 51-60 year old Female
We all work at the same company. This guy and I are demonstrating an attraction for each other over the past few months. We sometimes flirt but most of our interest in each other we demonstrate to each other as we have to be careful right now on the job. As we haven't had sex yet and are still unsure of the other's interest, along comes the company slut and gives my guy oral sex (she was suppose to be my friend). The next day I stayed as far away from him as possible, flirted with another guy, did everything out of the ordinary which really confused him and I loved it, and saw him looking for me at the end of the workday but I left and went home. We will all be back to work in 5 days and I don't know how to look at him when we all clock in that morning. I know I won't feel like giving my usual big smile and good morning to him. Please advise on how I should act at this awkward moment because I don't know how I'm going to feel, but I could put on an act if I have to. Please advise, and thank you. Advice
Are you sure she is telling the truth? You might consider discussing this with him and find out what he says.

If he admits it tell him that you won't be flirting with him anymore. If he denies it the you can decide whether to believe him and go from there.

Good luck! George

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