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hi im with my girlfriend since 3 monthes and we love each other soo much but these days she is afriad about our relationship she thinks that its not serious anymore even she loves mes how can i make her believe in it again?
Hi and welcome Ahmadov smile

I think that you need to find out why she feels like this?

Has something happened?

Have a talk with her about it.

Reassure each other that you both care.

No-one knows what the future will bring, and three months is not long, but if you both care about the other, and both want the relationship to succeeed, then you are off to a good start.

Good luck!
thank you for the advice,
what happenend is that i call her less than before because i'm busy in school and stuff so maybe that's the problem
thank you anyway i calla her dialy and it's gettting better
I think that you just need to reassure her that she and the relationship are as important as ever to you.
Originally Posted By: ahmadov
hi everyone,
so today i called my girlfriend (as usual) to beg her to come back to me she said that she can't now she doesn't feel anything towards me maybe she told me that we are close friends now and she needs me but only as a friend. Maybe does she need a space?? How can i give ehr time to think? she asked me to call her dialy as ususal because she would miss be but she insisted on the fact that we are just best friends. any hope?? how can she love me again?? thanks


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So, she has gone from saying that she loves you very much, and worrying that the relationship is not serious anymore, to just wanting to be friends.

It sounds as if she doesn't need your reassurance, about your feelings, after all ~ she has already decided that the romance has ended.
She still likes you, but no longer feels any romantic attachment.

Check whether this is the case, and, if it is, then you will need to just accept it.
No-one can force themselves to love someone else.
You would not truly be happy with a girl, who didn't love you, but who only thought of you as a friend.

You may, or may not, wish to, or be able to, remain friends, but you need to come to terms with this.
You cannot make someone love you.

It's a bit unfair of her, I think, in these circumstances, to ask you to phone her every day.
It's your choice, of course, but you might be happier trying to move on. It may be hard but it could be for the best.

Take care & good luck! smile
First of all dude don't beg anyone for anything ever in your life. It comes off very needy and it is not attractive.

Secondly i agree with PDM. If she doesn't feel anything towards you anymore then it is time to move and just live your own life. You need to be selfish here and take care of you. You will need to just accept it and as hard is that is and believe me i know how that feels you will get through it and be a stronger person for it.

This girl is pulling your heart strings and it is not fair. If i were you don't call her anymore. You will have good days and you will have days where it is hurts so bad you won't know what has hit you but you will survive.

I hope you can come to terms with this and find peace with it.
Thx nicky i think you are right thanks a lot
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