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PDM #406742 12/14/10 11:11 PM
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I hate to be a broken record .. but www.marriagebuilders.com saved my marriage. Please consider it and its FREE resources before you waste money on counselling. I tried counselling with my wife .. and all it does is rehash problems and cause more resentment. Traditional marriage counselling has 85% failure rate becasue they do NOT know how to restore love when your love banks for eachother are in the RED. You can fall in love with anyone if your top emotional needs are met. Make sure you know what they are (marriagebuilders has some questionairs you can print out to discover them) so you can relay them to your spouse and exchange printouts so you can begin healing and restoring your love ... it seems difficult at first but believe me .. when your down a road to doing anything to recover your marriage .. its worth it and is far more effective than counselling .. and cheaper too!

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MrNiceGuy #406759 12/15/10 06:26 AM
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... Well, uh, already paid for the counseling. Did about 5-6 sessions now. Some with just me, some with him.

Either way, it's over. And I'm devastated and trying to find a way to rebuild my life. So this topic isn't relevant any longer.

Thanks though.

Niki #406763 12/15/10 04:07 PM
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Take care smile


"The secret of success is constancy to purpose" - Benjamin Disraeli.
PDM #406769 12/15/10 04:52 PM
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I'm sorry you've gone through this - I know how difficult it can be. My thoughts and best wishes are with you.

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I am sooo sorry. If you have time ... or are even still with your husband and have any thought or hope of reconsiliation ... please consider marriagebuilders .. you may be surprised how it can turn your marriage around, even if your seperated.

I am sorry for your situation. My prayers go out for you. There is a great support group over there that can guide you or help you on their discussion forum. AND many are or have been in your shoes.

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MrNiceGuy #406786 12/16/10 01:32 AM
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Yeah, talk to him about it cause I can't handle the back and forth anymore. I'll file for divorce as soon as I can get the money and emotional energy to do so.

Best wishes are appreciated. I'm taking care of myself just fine. Already in an online support group. I'll make it through.

Thanks again though.

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Best wishes making it through this difficult time. hugs!

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