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Re: from lust to silence from moms death? [Re: linder] #392755
01/03/10 12:42 AM
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Yes, Anthony, Linder is right.

Better to know now.

Better not to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't really want to be there.

However, it must be difficult to deal with.

I am sorry that you went through all this, but, as you say, she is a 19 year old mixed-up kid, who is not ready for the type of relationship that you can provide, and who would rather be badly-treated by someone else.

Sad.

Good luck for 2010 smile


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Re: from lust to silence from moms death? [Re: vans2couture] #393094
01/06/10 11:41 PM
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Good luck vans, but to me she doesn't even deserve the second gift, she did you wrong plain and simple. I am sure you will find a nice girl who cares for you as much as you care for her, who knows, maybe here in the forums? Stranger thinks have happened....

Re: from lust to silence from moms death? [Re: Chachi's mom Dee] #393402
01/12/10 02:55 AM
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hey pdm or anyone else if u are still following this by chance just to let u know she got dumped by the other guy it only lasted like a week lol

amazing she puts me through all this to get dumped in a week wow!! and she was postin on her FB how sad she was and heartbroken lmao plz karma is a [censored]!!!

Re: from lust to silence from moms death? [Re: vans2couture] #393414
01/12/10 09:55 AM
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Well, as you say, it looks like karma.

But try not to be too hard on her ~ it won't help you, and, as we have said before, she is very young and has endured some awful experiences.

When she is older, she may realise how thoughtless she was with you.
It is often the way. She may not even realise until she has sons or grandsons of her own.

Meanwhile, stay positive and you will meet your 'Miss Right'.

Good luck smile


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Re: from lust to silence from moms death? [Re: PDM] #393457
01/12/10 10:02 PM
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yeah i've gotten over her...(still really deep inside there is still a part of me that has feelings for her) but we really dont even talk anymore and i have not talked to her since she got dumped. but i just wanted to let u guys know what happened..lol i dunno it xxxxxx me off that she put me through this and went with this other guy who dumps her in a week and i would of treated her like a queen but at the same time its kinda comical to see karma kick her in xxx so fast thats all...

but as for me iam not looking for anyone i wasnt when i met her...iam just livin my life and when miss right comes she comes. iam not gonna push the issue tryin to find love... i got hurt too many times pushing and pushing tryin to search left and right for love. so iam just back to livin my life. and yeah it does get lonley at times but iam not afraid to keep on livin iam not afraid to walk this world alone.

but thanks again for all your help!!!

Last edited by PDM; 01/12/10 11:19 PM.
Re: from lust to silence from moms death? [Re: vans2couture] #393462
01/12/10 11:19 PM
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Take care smile


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Re: from lust to silence from moms death? [Re: PDM] #393478
01/13/10 11:37 PM
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thanks for the update Anthony, I was wondering how you were doing the other day. Sounds like Karma definitely kicked in.
I like your attitude about moving forward. You deserve someone a little more mature. Good luck to you!

Re: from lust to silence from moms death? [Re: linder] #393535
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thankyou very much linder and pdm!!

by the way i actually talked to her last night and if you remeber from my previous post she had "life changing news" well i found out what that was. she got pregnant by this guy! and then she "miscarried" the baby. ( i honestly think she had an abortion she had 1 already and told me she does not want to bring a child into this world untill she is stable and ready to have a family) but whatever happened she was pregnant but the baby no longer exsist. smirk which is sad news mainly for the poor baby but for her too i dont care want she did to me if she did miscarry the baby i feel for her.

but anyways lol my point is this makes me feel better and worst in a way.. it makes me feel worst cause while she was talkin to me and gettin ready to start dating she was off gettin porked my someother guy! and this makes me feel better cuz it is life changing news and alot to deal with and i can kinda understand why she went mute on me! but at the same time she could of atleast said something to me! ya know?

but i just wanted to fill u guys in on that. i thought u might find it interesting!! lol : )

thanks again alll!!!!

Re: from lust to silence from moms death? [Re: vans2couture] #393539
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smile


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Re: from lust to silence from moms death? [Re: PDM] #394162
01/26/10 12:00 AM
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That does make everything fit into place much more easily. Maybe she did not want to be with that guy but because she was pregnant she felt like she had to try to make it work. With everything else going on in her life she was probably an absolute basket case.

She might have not been cheating on you - she might have gotten pregnant before you started dating and only realized it later on. With all the things going on in her life, it's not unusual for a girl to miss a period or two due to stress. She might have thought that was the case.


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