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I met this wonderful guy at a dance. I got his #. This was the past friday. Today I texted him. He texted me back, buthe stopped texting me all of a sudden. Should I call him in a few days? I turned off my phone for now and I am going to go watch tv. Is this a sure sign that he isn't interested? I regret not calling instead of texting.

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Hi Luvanimalsdearly

There could be any number of reasons why he stopped texting.

Maybe he doesn't want to pursue a relationship, or maybe he simply lost his phone.

Perhaps you could send him another ~ just casual & friendly ~ and see if he responds. You could even ask, in the text, if it would be ok for you to phone him; maybe then you would get a reply???

Good luck! smile


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That's a tough line, you don't want to stalk the guy, but you want to stay on is radar. I'd definitely give it a few days. Then call him with a casual question, ask him something about the dance, like you remember a certain song and wanted to know if he knew the title of it. That way it's a friendly contact and a stress-free one. You want him to think of you as friendly and fun, not as a psycho stalker smile


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There is also always the possibility that he got grounded.

I just grounded my 17 yr old son and part of that punishment was losing his cell-phone and access to his FaceBook account. So that meant no contact with his GF except by housephone, and that was only to tell her that he was grounded!

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I don't know whats up, but I texted him once last Thursday and no answer. I have already deleted any trace of him on my phone. Thanks for the input tho!

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Ah well, sometimes you just have to move on. Have fun at your next dance!


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Chelle - no facebook??? You are a harsh taskmaster! What did this poor kid do to get cut off from the world like that? smile


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Thnx so much!

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We'll just say that he got into some trouble using the internet - so I feel taking away the internet is completely justified. smirk

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LOL ah ok so it's a very appropriate response then! That will certainly be a strong message smile I know adults who would be greatly traumatized by losing their Facebook access!


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