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PDM #386408 10/13/09 12:47 PM
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i know i'll feel better after time
i know i'll come out stronger
but right now i just dont know. i just feel like im in a hole and no matter what i do, i can't get out.
time is so slow and its feels as if it doesnt want me to get over this hurt.

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That is normal ~ it is a form of grief.
Many, many people go through it.
Just be kind to yourself. smile


"The secret of success is constancy to purpose" - Benjamin Disraeli.
PDM #386437 10/14/09 02:44 AM
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Originally Posted By: PDM
That is normal ~ it is a form of grief.
Many, many people go through it.
Just be kind to yourself. smile


i know...
it feels better compared to the first day.
but it hurts knowing the girl that is supposed to love you was attracted to another guy and kissed him.
it happened a week later, so my mind is thinking she had a attraction for him even before we broke up.
theres no way you can get to know a person in a week and already be attracted to him and than get to a point where you would kiss him.

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It may not necessarily be as bad as you think.

First of all, most young people are programmed to be attracted to the opposite sex ~ even if they are in a relationship.
It's a biological, hormonal, built-in thing.

Second; It is quite common for girls & boys, who are separated for any length of time & are missing their boy/girlfriends, to get involved in flirting with others. I don't know why ~ maybe it's similar to rebound relationships.

Third; People do kiss, even those in relationships.
I don't mean passionate kissing, necessarily, but kissing none-the-less.
'Hello' kisses, 'birthday' kisses, 'Christmas' kisses, 'goodbye' kisses, etc.
And sometimes ~ especially if alcohol is involved, or it has been an emotional time, or they are missing their partners, it may become something more than the usual peck on the cheek, or even the mouth.

What happens next depends upon the true feelings of the individuals involved.

Sometimes people regret the kiss; sometimes they don't.

But, because it has happened, the individuals may start to question their feelings.

Something relatively innocent may be forgotten; or it may lead to life changes.

Last edited by PDM; 10/15/09 03:19 PM. Reason: typo

"The secret of success is constancy to purpose" - Benjamin Disraeli.
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