RomanceClass.com Forums Romance Dating Getting intamate and i'm confused...

Hey man. Their right. and let me tell you, it's normal to think about it, we're human. but you shouldn't do it at such a young age. Espically since your still in school.

True love....sounds a lot like lust to me. this is just from my stand point as a christian, if you really love her, you should hold off until after your married. i said this before in my last post.

Also, pressure is all around, not just by your friends, or by her, it's in your own mind, it's in movies, music and what other xxxx the world has jammed into young peoples mind.

Jeremy: I know it's difficult, but I was happy to read that you're attempting to slow things down. I also think it's wonderful that your asking for help with this...even from a bunch of strangers!

There was no internet when I was a teenager - back then teenagers just shared alot of misinformation regarding sex with each other. My family was no help; around 12 years old I asked where babies came from and my parents replied, "We don't talk about that at the dinner table." I was pregnant at age 14. Amaggiepie was kind enough to share with you the difficulties of being a teenager mother. I didn't have mine. I had an abortion instead. At the time I was happy to have the "situation" dealt with but it would not be until many years later that the emotional and physical scars of my decision hit me like a mac truck. I guess my point is that when your young and immature that these are scenarios to be avoided at all costs.

Again, cudos Jeremy for reaching out for help. I get the sense that, deep down, you know what the right thing to do is. Just listen to us old timers - there's been a ton of great information on these threads.