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#349985 01/31/09 04:07 PM
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Ok so I recently just moved, and one of my best guy friends live right next door. So like the other day he came over and we were chillin for a little bit. Then out of nowhere he starts making out with me!! Im not sure if he really does like me, or if im just like "the girl next door". Any advice??

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Guess that all depends on how you feel about him. Boyfriend material or just guy friend material? In my opinion I'd say just keep it as friends. Afterall, with him living right next door, things could get a little strange if ya actually go out with each either and then break up.
But if you really do like him more than just a friend then throw caution to the wind and go for it!




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yeah I guess thats whats holding me back because if we ever do break up it wont be the same if we were to stay friends

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For sure the friendship would never be the same if you broke up after dating a while. It never is frown Even if you both agree you will remain friends it's just not the SAME




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Hello Baby & welcome smile

First could I please ask you to have a look at the forum rules & guidelines ~ thank you.

I am concerned about your avatar, because any images that you post must be your own.
For example, you cannot post photos that have been taken by someone else, because of copyright law.

Also, we have a size limitation. The absolute maximum size is 300 x 300 pixels.

http://www.wineintro.com/about/forum/avatarrules.html
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As for your 'problem', I'm a bit confused.

What exactly did this 'making out' entail?
How long did it go on for?
What did you do / how did you react?
Did you encourage him to continue?

How well do you know him?
How long have you known him?
Do you like him in this way?

How old are you both?

The advice will most likely depend on your answers. smile

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Hi again, Baby.

Sorry, I though I remembered your user name, and a similar problem from before, I thought that you were a new member ~ I hadn't realised that you were the same person smile

Does this sort of thing happen to you a lot?
Do you think that you are sending out signals, without realising it?

What did you do about it last time?

This is from about a year & a half ago:

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Ok i babysit my mom's friends sister's daughter. And she also has a son who's my age. The first day i went to go babysit he was there so we were both by ourselves. When i sat on the sofa he started talking to me for a while then he sat next to me. When we were watching tv he started sliding his hand down to touch mine. Then he just started making out with me! And i didnt even know him like that. But today they invited me to the pool and every time i see him he acts like nothing happened. But when i go babysit he makes out with me again. should i keep making out with him, or stop????


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Well we kissed for a little, maybe for like 2 minutes tops. I went along with it, but then I stopped him. I have known him for 2 1/2 years now, and I know him really good. He is 17, and I am 16. And about the signals part, Who knows?? I probably have a sign across my forhead or something. smile

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How do you feel about him?


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Well I do like him, but if we do go out and break up it will be a little ackward. Seeing that he is my next door neighbor and all.

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I think maybe you should ask yourself what he really wants from you: friendship? just physical stuff? a real girlfriend?

Maybe the two of you should spend time together not making out, and see if there's a basis for going out with him...

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