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I need help please. There is this girl named Meghan that I have loved for over 2 years now but i don't know how to tell her. We never talk every now and then we will say hi but other than that that's all. I just want to sweep her off of her feet holding her in my arms while it is snowing out and just whisper to ehr that I love her. her beautiful brown eyes her smile, her laugh EVVERYTHING. Please help me. I would like to start just as friends.
I am desperate.

I think it's great that you said, "I would like to start just as friends." That's usually a good way to start a relationship.

Do you two have something in common that you could talk about? Or could you just start a conversation with her about regular stuff (the weather, teachers, music)?

You see her every now and then and say, "hi."

I assume you know the pattern.

One day, when you meet her, step up to her and hand her a rosebud.

Ah. How sweet that would be!

Could you give us some more info, please?

How long have you known her ~ just the two years, or longer?
How do you know her? ~ Work, school, college, something else?
How well do you know her? ~ Is she a 'dream girl' for you, or do you really know her?
How old are you both?


Well, that's a start. It means that you could possibly, in the right circumstances, add something to that 'Hi' ~ maybe a rosebud, as suggested by Carl.
You could ask her a question.
That's often the most straightforward way of starting a conversation.
Depending on the situation, you could ask if she had a good weekend and what she did.
You could ask if she has brothers or sisters.
You could ask about her holidays, or her plans for the future, or her hobbies, or whether she likes sports and what teams she follows, or about the music she likes and whether she has been to any concerts.
Make a list of these options for yourself to remember.
Then, when you meet up with her, or happen to be in her vicinity, you can start a conversation.

That sounds very romantic.
Sometimes the dream is more obviously 'romantic' than the reality, yet the reality turns out to be much better.
Maybe she likes you, too, or maybe not. I don't know and neither do you, but by being friendly you may find out.

Yes, good idea.
So just be friendly.
That 'hi' is an opener.
Smile.
Ask how she is.
If she is going your way, perhaps you could walk with her.
Perhaps you might find that you have interests in common to talk about ~ films, music, etc.
Talk to her.

Good luck!

After two years of loving someone, to whom you have only ever said 'hi', I can understand that.
But you need to make the relationship real.
It may turn into friendship, or romance, or you may just become friendly aquaintances, or it may fizzle into nothing at all ~ but at least you will have tried and you will know.

I was in the same situation you are in right now. Your problem may have past but the way i was able to Get my ex back was through the use of a handy ebook.

I have mentioned books, myself, but I am concerned about using threads like this specifically for advertising.

well I only saw her two years ago after that i feel in love and only saw her every now and then but last year we had classes together so she finally knew me. i know her from school as you could probably tell by what I have already said. I don't really know her that much just a little. We are both 14 so ya. The problem with just striking a conversation with her is that she found out because of a "friend" you know what i mean so IO get the feeling she feels uncomfortable around me. She is nearly always surrounded by friends.

I see ~ you are the same age as my daughter.

Young love seems to cause so many problems.

What you want is to know how you and she can become boyfriend and girlfriend.

This assumes that both sets of parents would accept such a situation.

I'm guessing that both of you are likely to be surrounded by friends a lot of the time at school ~ and, even if you go out together, at your age it's best to go out as a group, so how about arranging a group outing for you & your friends and her & her friends?

This is what my daughter's group of friends do. Sometimes they go shopping; sometimes to the park; sometimes to a pizza restaurant ~ some girls from her school & some boys from the nearby boys school. They arrange a time and place to meet and all go out together. Last weekend it was pizza; I think the next one is going to be watching a horror film at one of the houses!

What do you think?

As you get to know her better, you will find out whether or not she likes you in the same way, and also if your feelings for her are really real.
Good luck!