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#220129 10/16/07 02:55 AM
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Okay, this may sound alittle weird, but here goes:

See, I have a crush on this guy and so does my friend. Normally, I would not even think about asking him out but there is a lot more to it. My friend already has a boyfriend and she claims to be lesbian, not only that be she likes almost every one. She's already asked the dude out and he said no because she won't leave him alone. Do I go out with the guy or do I not? I need help!


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I'm guessing you ask for fear of upsetting your friend if he does agree to go out with you? I would say she has her own issues--chasing multiple boys while claiming to be a lesbian--and that you shouldn't let those get in your way.

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Normally, I would not even think about asking him out...

I'm a bit confused. Normally you wouldn't think of asking him out becuase...
your friend also likes him?
you believe the guy should do the asking?


I say just try to get to know this guy as friends, and if it develops into more, great, and if not, then you've saved yourself some possible trouble.


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Originally Posted By: sala
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I say just try to get to know this guy as friends, and if it develops into more, great, and if not, then you've saved yourself some possible trouble.


I'd second that!

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