I get home and have dishes, laundry and to clean.

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My boyfriend and i have to fight all the time things were great in the begining but now it sucks i think we need time but he thinks i am crazy. All he wants is sex and then bedtime. He is trying to give up chewing for me and he is working on that so that is another fight. He also spends his life at work even on his days off(Salary Job) and on Sunday another one of his days off i have to go to work and he flips out but i have to work that day and he sit home and does NOTHING!! I get home and have dishes, laundry and to clean. What do I do??

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He's not going to change unless you help him to.

Giving up chewing is not an easy thing to do and he deserves credit for undergoing that for you. And, he puts in extra hours at work which will work for him in the long run at work.

Isn't it possible for him to work on Sunday and take more time off on different days when you are there?

You and he will have to come to an agreement about him putting more time into household chores. A lot of guys grew up with their mother's doing it all and it isn't easy for them to participate. But you can't do it all so tell him that.

If he can give up chewing, work on Sunday instead of other days, and pitch in with the housework then that should be a good improvement that may lead to others.

Good luck! George

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