One moment she will be lovely dovey and nice and caring and hugging me
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
well, i sent in a question about 3 or four days ago. If you dont remember im the one where she thinks she wants to stay single. well randomly, we started talking about something and it led to her telling me that she doesnt want to go out with the person that i am now but the one before we broke up. and its because i am being kinda clingy by calling her and stuff. so i understood so i didnt call her for a couple of days but then at school she was really nice to me and she was cold she asked me to hold her, blah blah. so i did of course. and then asked her if she would want to watch a movie later with me. and she said call me later or whatever. so i call her and we watch the movie together. and she like pulled me over to her because she thought that i couldnt see but clearly could. so she had me lay on her lap. so i did untill she had to go to the bathroom and then she told me she was on her "time" of the month. so i was being nice by like getting her heating pad and like water and midol and all that jazz. and she just pulled me on top of her and hugged me and we just layed there for a while. at one point she almost kissed me then pulled away.so then after a little of just laying there i left. and she wouldnt let go of me when she was hugging me.
so this morning she calls me and asks where i am at school so i go and find her, and we ung out but she waas much more distant towards me. she would barely hug me, or anything of that sort. and she was acting almost a little mean to me. but while she was acting this way she still was confiding in me about somefriend gossip, and it was the way she would talk to me when i was her boyfriend. so i was kind of being cynical and i told her i had to leave ( i did it to see if what she would say) and she was like oh where are you goinng, like she cared that i was leaving. so im asking what i should do because one moment she will be lovely dovey and nice and caring and hugging me. and the next she will kinda of be pissy and not at all. so yeah, im confused on what to think about her. i feel like if she didnt want to be with me at all she wouldnt tell me that i was acting weird and that was pushing her away from me. it wouldnt matter to her if that was the case . im just confused. so maybe you can help me figure things out.
Since she is having her period, her moods may be up and down.
Try to adapt yourself to her mood and let her take the lead. Don't take her behavior personally. Take the good but ignore the bad.
Remember what she said about not being so clingy so keep a little bit of distance between you two and tell her you are doing it at her request.
Good luck! George
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