He asked me if we could be friends with benefits
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I Really Need Your HELP!! Please!! Me and my ex boyfriend went out for a year and 2 months and we have been broken up for about 2 months...he broke up wiht me, and he asked me if we could be friends with benefits and that it was MY decision and i said yes. is this wrong? i want him back so bad and he tells me that he will always love me and that he will always be there for me when i need him. we act like really good friends around people but when we are by ourselves we are all over each other. we had sex all the time when we went out but after we broke up weve had sex only about 5 times but we always do other stuff. i havent liked anybody else since we broke up. ive gone out with a couple of guys but i dont like them like that. he was haning out wiht a girl that he works with and he totally told me everything about her and told me that he doesnt think they will go out anytime and right now he doesnt like her like that. when we are at the same party or place.. he sometimes acts like hes having such a good time(maybe he is?) but when he sees im having fun then like every guy i talk to, he tells them to not talk to me or something. hes very confusing...is he using me? or does he really still love me but doesnt want a relationship right now? or does he just need time to think? Please Help...lol its so complicated for me!
You need to have a talk with him.
A nice, long, deep, caring, friendly, trusting, and honest conversation.
You can tell him about your feelings and find out how he feels. If you don't dod this you will only be guessing at what he is thinking. A talk will bring you two closer together and perhaps bring him back to you.
And you can make a plate or box of home-made chocolate chip cookies to entice him to have this talk.
Good luck! George
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One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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