My Ex Cheated, and Still Calls

Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
what should I do if I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 months because he cheated on me with my friend but he is still calling me? Advice
It doesn't sound like your friend was much of a friend, and your boyfriend wasn't much of a boyfriend!! He may finally realize just what he lost when he betrayed you, and regret it. He might also be lonely and figure he can wheedle his way back into your life much more easily than he could find a new girlfriend that would trust him.

In either case, I would really think long and hard before I took him back in. Not only was he able to betray you, but he did so with someone that was important to you. That shows that he thought more about himself and his own needs than you and how you would be harmed by all of this. Someone who makes that decision once often tends to make it again when given the chance. You deserve someone who REALLY cares for you.

-- from Jenn
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