I jus wanna know wut he thinks of me

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
hiya George,

:)everything seems to be going slow and good. Finally i think it is easier to work it with him better as a friend. i dont feel shy talking to him on the phone at all 'as a friend'.

But he is so surprised and asked me, y am i callin him after long time. well yea, its expected for him to ask, cus he is wonderin y i didn call when we're lovers but y im comfortable to call as a fren. I took great advantage of christmas eve to call n said i jus wanna wish him that! n also i miss his voice as i happen to see his pic in my bag. He wus happy then.

Few days later, stupidly i told him that on christmas eve wus my ex 'j'(even before him) marriage. He got angry and told me that's the reason y i actually called him and not bcus i missed him etc etc. But i swore its not at all. Its bcus i wanna get back with him n took advantage of the christmas eve, but damn myself to tell him bout that weddings, yea!!!??

well, george! since he told me he gotta new g/f, i had then "pull my price" and told him that i wont destroy his relationship with his new girl n i will move on by New Year 2006. he too said he wished i will move on too. I told him that if he wanna lemme move on, b sure not to reply to my sms n make me hate him n make me feel theres no chance at all, then i wil b able to really move on! when i told him this, i got no respond at all from him, therefore i dunno wut he thinks of this. But george, i see a lil difference, as if, he will reply me once in a while on email tellin me excuses for not replying, as if i shouldnt hate him but understand him that he would love to respond to me but being held up or etc.

AND the worst wus, On new year eve, i least expected it at all, george, he sms me 'happy new year, z'! i wus very very happy of course! i sms him n even called him. From his voice, i knew he was happy too that i called him. i wus stuck at work, he shows some care asking why m i workin soo late n not celebrating. but i dunno if he believe me workin or not hahaha as we're worlds apart, but i let him speak to a colleague of mine, a girl. and he sounds happy im with a girl instead of a guy.

Im surprise too why is he at home n waiting for his frens to come over to celebrate n why isnt he celebrating with his new g/f. or is he waitin for his g/f then. well george, i jus wanna know wut he thinks of me as he do n treat me the way he did it to me. Does he still got mixed feelings of me? Does he still wants me to stand by him till he gets to settled down his career? his every move, If this is it, george, then i am really willing to be there for him n will give him all the times he needed to learn bout his journey of life. im sure with ur websites n tips n i believe i can make him mine! I believe that me n him are meant to b. Jus i also believe he, as a man, needs that 'time' to learn n know his real-self! so tell me george, is it worth it for me to give all my time to give him time too, for himself and for him to recognise that im always there for him???

RomanceClass.com Advice
It seems like he still cares about you.

Keep the lines of communication open and something might develop between the two of you. Let him know you are there for him, but don't close your eyes to other possibilities. He does have mixed feelings for you but it still might not go your way.

The best you can do is be patient, cheerful, and caring.

Good luck! George

-- from George
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