Still loves ex after 2.5 years

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Person
well my problem goes like this.
I was goin out with a guy almost 2 and a half yrs back, we broke up after a mnth, coz he didnt wanna get serious in a relationship due to family issues which he was and i didnt want anything for kicks. he never told me the reason why he called it off but im quite sure bout it.jus an added information we werent that intimate..jus restricted to kissing.
then i started goin out with another guy after an yr. but im still stuck up on my ex..i long to see him, i think bout him all the time even though its been 2.5 yrs. its like very kinky, i get very positive vibes from him, i feel he's goin thru the same phase as i am, it jus shows. its almost like we can read each other's mind.
my college wud be ending in 6 mnths time n i don know if i'll ever see him again or not. i dont wanna regret bout this in my life. shud i talk to him? what bout my present guy, coz i really like him and he adores me too but what i feel for my ex is not comparable.
i need desperate help, please. Advice
You need to get this out of your system.

Talk to your ex and explain how you feel and ask him how he feels. My best guess is that he will not feel the same about you... but I've been wrong many times before. You don't want to spend many more years wondering what if.

As far as your current boyfriend, you will have to tell him after you talk to your ex.

Good luck! George

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