Should I give her a last second chance ?

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So my girlfriend decided to go back to dating. A week later I was hanging out with her at a mall. she didnt realize I wa coming but she was obviously hitting on one of my friends. She has lied to me and I feel led on. I completly broke it off and told her I dont wanna talk to you. Its been over 3 weeks since then and now im talking to her again. She hurt me really bad but for some stupid unknown reason I still have feelings for her. I dont know how considering she put me through sooo much crap during the end of our relationship. But I guess she wants me back and her friends say she is cleaning up her act because she wants me back. She used to do drugs, she quit I guess for me. But I am at a loss here. My friends say I should let her go and that its her fault. But inside I feel that if she truly is sincere and has cleaned up her act that I should should give her a last second chance with me. I dont know if that is a good idea. If she is going to hurt me again that its a no. But if she is serious I wonder if it would be ok to take her back if she is willing. Thank you for your response! :)

I am 17 years old! Advice
Yes she deserves a second chance. Almost everyone does.

And, remember great love requires great risk.

Ask her if she has cleaned up her act and go from there.

Good luck! George

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