Suddenly he changed, the way he sends me sms, the way he talks over the phone

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
hi! i just met this guy few weeks ago. we really get along well & we enjoy each others company. he told me that through that short span of time he fell in love w/ me. he was really nice, sweet, thoughtful. so in that matter of time i felt the same way too. but suddenly he changed, the way he sends me sms, the way he talks over the phone or even when were together. then eh told me that all of a sudden his feelings was gone. he doesnt know what happend or why? he told me the problem is not w/ me but w/ him. coz he thinks hes not yet ready for a tied up relationship. he also told me that half of his heart was telling him to still love me& half of it was to let go. so im confused, does he really loved me through that short span of time?
i still want him & i really think i love him. what do i need to do? Advice
Sometimes these relationships come on like a tornado.

Out of nowhere two people fall in love and then it passes and destruction is left behind. You are the unfortunate one who suffered the destruction.

Keep in contact with him, he could change his mind again and come on strong. But do you want to trust your feelings to someone like that?

Probably not.

Good luck! George

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