My boyfriend and I broke up just yesterday

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My boyfriend and i broke up just yesterday. I know that it takes time for the heart to heal from something like this. But i am so confused. He doesn't know if he wants to go back out of me or not. because he likes someone else. which he lied to me and said that he didn't. Now i don't know what to believe. I've heard so many things from my friends that he was a player. which i don't believe he is. I still love him and i still want to be with him But if i do i want to take it slow and have us trust each other again. My bf has a problem too and he wants me to help him but see i can't drive and i can't call him. cause i live an 45 minutes away. He looks at porno for 5 years now he has and he wants to help him. I don't know how! Please someone help me!! i am so confused!!! Advice
You will have to wait longer than a day before you can understand what happened and if you can do anything about it.

If you can't contact him, it will be very difficult for you to help him or for you to express your feelings for him. Perhaps he has been calling you. If so, encourage him to call you as often as he can.

His new female interest will be a difficult thing for you to overcome. There are a few things you can do. First is to be very friendly with him and be someone he feels comfortable talking with. Also, let him know that you still care for him very much.

Hope some of this helps! George

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