I told him he had to choose who who wanted to be with and that he had till the end of October

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Well I was with this guy named j* for 4 months shy of 6 years we have a beatiful son together and we were supposed to be getting married July 16 the day before our 6 year anniversary.The reason why we broke up is because we had so many people in our realationship like my dad and my dads friends.About a month or so of being apart from each other i began to date an old friend basically because i didnt want to be alone I missed j* so much.Anyways he began to date an old best friend of mine who I really dont care for and moved 3 hours away from where we lived together,before he left I told him how i felt about him and how i wanted him to be with me again he told me right now he couldn't be.We talk almost everynight when he calls to talk to our son I tell him I love him and he says the same a few times we have kissed and one time we even made love.
I told him he had to choose who who wanted to be with and that he had till the end of October to tell me Im really scared he's going to pick the other girl what else can I do to get him back.I love him so much him and our son are my whole world.I want to be the love of his life all over again please help me what else can i do?

D. S.

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What if the end of Oct comes and he says no to you?

Guess you can let him off the hook if that happens. Unless you are determined to get this settled asap.

What can you do?

Tell him how much his son misses him (if that's true).
Offer to move someplace else with him (since your relatives are a problem).
Ask him if he wants another man to raise his son.

I've run out of ideas... hope some of this helps! George

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