i can't seemt to quit cheating and lying

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Where do i begin.... It all started when I was about 18 years old. My summers were spent flirting with girls and trying to get them into bed. When I was 21, I met a girl and dated her for 4 years. During that time, I cheated on her atleast 6 times. Everytime she would suspect something, I denied everything. I became very good at lying and often had no problem lying to her face. Sometimes i would feel awful cheating on her and other times i wouldn't. I basically lost all morals and didn't care, which is werid because i really loved this girl. I never told her anything becuase I didn't want to hurt her. As it always happens, she found out a few things and we broke up. I was pretty devistated. Shortly after, I begain dating my current girl friend. I told my self that i want to be a better person. This is the truth. I really do want to be a honest and trustworthy boyfriend. That held up for about at year. Recently I did something that one might consider cheating and definitley lying. My girlfriend suspects everything and I keep lying to her. Yesterday she found something out and still I lied to her. What is my problem. I really like my girlfriend but i can't seemt to quit cheating and lying. I really want to be a better person. What do I do. I am reaching out for help because I am tried of hurting inside from all the lying and cheating.

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You're in your middle 20's and it's time to get your act together.

My advice is to see a professional counselor. I have no magic bullet to solve your problem. Resolution will take time with someone trained to do so.

Good luck! George

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