Last weekend she went to her dad's and when she came back she seemed very vacant

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hi im 14 and my girlfriend is 13. She goes to her dads house everyother weekend and i can only see her when shes at her moms. We've been dating for almost 4 months now and things are serious. We've had sex and everything. We could talk about anything and everything to eachother. Last weekend she went to her dads and when she came back she seemed very vacant. She seems that way when me and her talk and she isnt very enthusiatic sometimes it seems. When i ask her how her day was she says "it was fine" but doesnt ask me how mine was. I know something is wrong and i asked her and she won't tell me but she told her best friend s*. She said "I swear to god its not about our relationship" but if its not im not sure why she won't tell me. Im confused as to what it is that happened last weekend and if it sounds like shes not interested in me anymore and what can i do to make things the way they were. I love her very much and do not want to lose her. Advice
Have a long conversation with her.

Try to get her to share her feelings through open, loving, trusting, honest discussions. Something is troubling her and you need to find out what it is.

If that doesn't work, give her a little space while she sorts out her feelings.

Hopefully things will work out.

I sure hope so! George

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