I SAID I'D WAIT, BUT NO CALL NO SHOW. NOW I FEEL LIKE THIS WAS A BIG MISTAKE!!

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
MY BOYFRIEND & I JUST CELEBRATED 10 YRS TOGETHER,& MY BESTFRIEND'S BROTHER JUST REVEALED HE'S HAD THIS MAJOR CRUSH ON ME, EVER SINCE WE WERE KIDS. ALTHOUGH HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND, HE CAN'T TAKE HIS EYES OFF ME. HE GIVE ME ALL THIS ATTENTION, WHICH FEELS REAL GOOD. I THEN TOLD HIM I FELT THE SAME, HE BECAME EXCITED,& NERVOUS. SO WE SET A DATE FOR LUNCH. HE ENDED UP CALLING 2 HRS LATE, TELLING ME HE'S BEEN RUNNING ARRAINS ALL DAY, AND THAT IT WERE UP TO ME TO RESHEDULE OR WAIT UNTIL HE WAS DONE. I SAID I'D WAIT, BUT NO CALL NO SHOW. NOW I FEEL LIKE THIS WAS A BIG MISTAKE!!!!!!!I CAN'T FACE HIM NOW. HELP

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Both of you have bf/gf so maybe he got cold feet because of that.

Or maybe he was just too nervous in general.

In any case, give him a call and ask for an explanation. If you accept it then you can go on. But don't be smooth-talked into anything.

Good luck!
George

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One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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