i informed this other girl i was taken more then 10 times

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my girlfriend is in the middle of a nasty divorce and i have been with her for the passed year paying for it and loving and taking care of her. this past week i was forced into a confusing and horrible situation which there was no escape other then bailing on 2 drunk friends and having them risk driving home drunk. i informed this other girl i was taken more then 10 times even my friends told her multiple times but she kept hanging all over me and something happend it wasnt conventional sex it was oral. i know it will never happen again because i will not allow myself to be put in that position ever again nor do i plan on going anywhere without my girlfriend besides work. Do i tell her and risk not only my fiance but let her slip into depression because i was the only one who ever loved and believed in her? i do not have the courage to crush her like that. what should i do?

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Forgive yourself this one time.

But if anything similar happens again, you must confess to your g/f what happened and take the consequences. It probably means that you don't love her and do yourself and her a favor by splitting up.

The burden is now on you to behave for as long as you know her.

Good luck! George

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