Should I just leave him alone from now on to see if he calls or just give up all together

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Dated a guy 3 years he had to move(school) we were deeply in love and we broke up after he moved because I broke up with him for not coming home to see me when I wanted him to and then starting to date other guys that week. He says he's still in love with me but he doesnt think we should be together because of the distance. I know he doesnt have anyone to replace me and that all he does is study. We talk once or twice a month because I contact him. So when I do ever ask him questions about us getting back together one day he avoids answering me. He always tells me that he will tell me something but never does. He has never contacted me without me contacting him first since we broke up because he says that I cheated on him after he left by dating the other guys. I am so crushed about it all mostly because he wont give me any straight answers. Should I just leave him alone from now on to see if he calls or just give up all together. He's gonna be gone for two more years anyway so? help me please. Advice
My advice is to move on.

He seems to have no interest in renewing your relationship. Also, you have two more years of separation to face.

Neither of these factors are easily, if at all, resolvable.

Sorry you are in this situation!

-- from George
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