but how can cope with these feelings and hurt?

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
i would like to know if someone has been in this situation before of breaking up and then two months later were back talking again. i told me ex that i was talking to two different girls at a different time and things did not work out at all, my feelings and connections and attachment is more with my ex, but my ex girlfriend still loves me and attached to me and has feelings for me but at the same time she said she is talking to someone and likes the person hes not everything she needs from the inside spiritually. But she told me she wants to give me a second chance while she is recovering from being hurt that time from brake up. But i told her how can u recover?. But anyways i told her in order for you to want to recover u have to be alone and rethink about alot of things instead of having someone to cover up your past relationship with. but the things is wierd that im having a hard time believing her that she wants to give a second chance and she saying that really loves me to death and i am her first love and everything. but how can cope with this feelings and hurt?

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The answer to your question is to give it a second try with your ex.

If it doesn't work out again at least you gave it a shot.

My guess, though, is that you two will take the opportunity to talk over the past and come to understand it and what tore you apart.

You both still have strong feelings for each other so give it a try.

Good luck!

-- from George
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