I checked the cable bill to find out he has ordered 56 pornos in the past 3 months

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My ex-boyfriend and I have been broken up for about a month now. Before we broke up we were having alot of problems. He went to a strip club while we were in Mexico with his friends and left me by myself at a hotel. I began getting worried about him so I went walking down the streets in encintas where I found him at the strip club. I forave him. Later at home I checked the cable bill to find out he has ordered 56 pornos in the past 3 months, he would watch them while I was asleep next to him. I also forgave him for that. When we broke up I went to lunch with my a guy friend that I met a while ago. There is no chemestry at all and we are just friends. I hung out with him only once for an hour at the most, and now my ex is making a huge deal about this. He is saying that he can't trust me and is acting like I have cheated on him or something. I really miss him and I love him so much, I don't know what to do because I don't know how to trust him and not get jelious. Do you think he is addicted to pornography ? and what should I do in this situation ?

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You can trust him to go to strip joints and order a huge number of x rated movies. Is that what you want in a guy?

The strip joint wasn't a too bad thing to do, but renting all those movies makes me wonder if he isn't a little too far out.

Then his jealousy is really hard to believe. You did nothing wrong and besides you were broken up at the time.

I think it's time for you to dump him.

Good luck!

-- from George
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