He said its no big deal and to call anytime
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Im back. I have just an update about my situation of the guy who maybe kindof shy as well as me being shy. Im 26 and thought he was around my age. My friends and I went to around the area were he lives(friend's living there a few houses down and were usually there). Hes always looking out at the window at us(either nosy or who knows). I called him that day(took your advice)but there was no answer. So i left a note on his door saying that im not trying to bother him but i thought id see what he was doing since im not really from here and to call me. Well that night we went back to my friends house, and they called him, which i didnt know and i thought was immature(but everyone had a few drinks too). They handed the phone to me, I didnt know who it was, and he was saying his name was something different than what it is(i think he was trying to be cute because he was laughing), and we small talked.And i knew he could see me over there. He said he was doing nothing when i asked him, but he was waiting on a phone call, and that he wasnt sure what was up. So then he had to let me go in our midsentences because of the phone call. I felt stupid about the whole situation. So my friend called him back and told him that it wasnt me who called or anything or has been. I then called him next and told him myself it wasnt me that was bugging and apologized(i had to do it myself, figured its best to hear it from me). I asked what he was doing saturday night and he said that he didnt know about the daytime but he had plans at nighttime. He said its no big deal and to call anytime. He said something like how he was old, and im like no your not. I asked him how old he was(wasnt quite sure) and he told me to guess. I said 26, and kept going until 35. Well his bday is coming up he said so he feels old(he told me when it was too). He asked me about work a few times and when i was going to be there next. I told him and also what i professionally did before(career change for me). Asked me what brought me to this area. I told him the reasons for that. I told him im just looking to meet new ppl and that im single again and plan to keep it that way, he just laughed. He told me he doesnt really know me from work that well enough(when i told him thats were i knew him from). I told him I had to get off the phone, and he told me we will have to get together eventually to do something sometime(he does keep busy). Im not sure if he likes me even, but I just thought id give an update. But thank you for the website, ive been to this site before about a guy that i loved and he played so many games with me, i finally got smart and let him go, even though it was hard.Thanks again!
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