I really, really love my boyfriend of 6 months, and I don't know what I'd do without him

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I really, really love my boyfriend of 6 months, and I don't know what I'd do without him. I'm not cheating, but I'm starting to develop feelings for another guy. Problem: I'm 14, my boyfriend is 15, and the guy I really like is 20. I really don't know what to do. I love my boyfriend, but this new guy makes me feel beautiful, loved, and intelligent. My boyfriend makes me feel loved, but he gets jealous easily, and so sometimes I feel like a posession. I have so much more in common with the new guy than with my boyfriend... I really need advice! Thanks in advance!

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The big problem with the 20 year old is that it is illegal for him to have sex with you. He could go to jail.

Second, why is a 20 year old interested in a 14 year old? He should be seeing girls of his own age group. So, something is wrong.

You really love your boyfriend but he has some flaws. Everyone has flaws, you should have conversations with him about his jealousy and somehow convince him that his jealousy is unfounded (except with the 20 year old).

My advice is to stick with your boyfriend.

Good luck!

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