He still wants to be in the baby's life

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My boyfriend of a year and the father of my unborn baby broke up with me 3 weeks ago. We were so in love and perfect for each other. Then I got pregnant. He still wants to be in the baby's life but he became a total asshole when i got pregnant. He just didn't want to grow up. I don't know how to get over him. I'm still so in love with him. He hasn't contacted me at all. We have a history of breaking up and getting back together. I think I want to be back together. What should I do? What can I do?

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Ask him to take a stronger role in the baby's life right now.

There are doctor's visits that he could accompany you to and reading up on babies. Also, choosing a name for the baby.

Don't dwell on the negative, when you talk to him think positively and he may catch on as well.

Ask him to start contributing money so that you can save up for buying baby things. He will be financially responsible anyhow... he might as well learn that now. Go easy on this because it will probably turn him off.

Meanwhile, contact the local human services department for assistance.

I wish you well with this!

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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