he used to cancel everydate, then he just wouldn't come without canceling

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a year and a half ago i i went through abreak up with someone i loved so much,it hurt way more than i thought it will,it still does, i tried to stay friends and it took me along time to open my heart again,i met what i thought then a great man,he was perfect except that i couldnt see him, he is always busy on the weekend,and weekdays, he calls me more than once everyday though,i saw him three times in three months,he used to cancel everydate,then he just wouldn,t come without canceling, we made alot of plans for the future,we were serious,i got scared of going through that old road of pain again, when started not even canceling our dates,he is not seeing anyone,he was hurt too, but he wouldn,t open up to me as hard as i tried, it has been a month scince the break he didn,t contact me,i miss him alot,want him back,not sure it is right, i don,t want to hurt my pride scince i am the one that said i won,t come back till you realy want me back,,what should i do??i wish i can see him by chance.help

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Forget what you said. Go with your feelings now.

My suspicion about this guy is that he is married or has another girlfriend. Have you ever been over to his place? His behavior is very difficult to explain otherwise.

My advice is to keep trying with him. You can't win without trying!

Good luck,

-- from George
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