She's very very shy, she didn't want anyone to know about us.

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Hello, I'm from Japan, I'm 17 now and I had a girl(17 years old too) for 5 months.We broke up on August last year(about 1 year ago)!But I just can't forget her!!The reason we broke up is because some of her friends saw us together and knew we were dating, and that for some reason made her sad or something like that.She's very very shy, she didn't want anyone to know about us.Well I know that's a pretty stupid reason to break up but everyone is different!So please respect.After that, of course I tried to talk to her, but she ignored me all time.I tried calling, sending email messages, but she ignored all.That was in Jr. High School by the way.Now we're in High School but DIFFERENT high schools.She went to a better high school because she is very intelligent and popular.Last time I talked to her was in April, when our classes(jr. high school) made a reunion and we had the chance to talk alone.She said No when I asked for her (new) number.So I thought it was better to change the subject so I started talking about things she liked(movies) and we talked like in the past, it was great talking like that again!But that was just it.
In a few weeks her school will make some kind of party and I will have the chance to talk to her again.There will be a lot of people, and I suspect she will be surrounded by her friends.I heard she got one boy-friend after me, but already broke up.Well here're the questions that dont go out of my head:
Does she still want to talk with me??
What should I start talking??Should I go direct in the subject saying I want her back or should I try to be friends again??
What about her friends around her??
And do I have any chance of getting her love back??
Please, it has been already 1 year we broke up, but I STILL love her and I can't forget her..I dream we're together but I wake up and realize I'm without hurts so bad.Please help me however you can.
Sorry for my English, I'm from Japan and my English is not good!
Please answer me as fast as you can because in a few weeks I'll have the chance of meeting her at her school party.Thank you! Advice
Here are my thoughts about your questions:

Does she still want to talk with me? -- Yes, she enjoyed talking with you in April so she has probably not changed.

Should I try to be friends again? -- First you should let her know that you still have the same feelings for her. If she rejects you then ask if you can be friends (and get her phone number.)

What about her friends around her? -- I have no good advice on this... naturally you want to be with her alone if possible.

Do I have any chance of getting her love back?? -- Only if you can be friends with her for a while. So it is important to get her phone number.

Good luck!

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