My girlfriend of almost 6 years broke up with me 7 months ago

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My girlfriend of almost 6 years broke up with me 7 months ago. She had met someone new and broke up with me to be with him. I tried for a few months very hard to get her to take me back. Then i found a wonderfull woman and we have been together for almost 5 months, A few months finaly gave up on getting back woth my ex and let myself fall in love with my new girl. Well last week my ex let me know that she misses me, and wants me back. she broke up with her bf and sent him packing. She wants me back very baddly, and it hurts me to see her like this. but i love my new gf, i think she is a bettter person for me, we have our problems, but I have felt more alive than ever. I know i could go back to the ex, shhe promises that everything will change, but im afraid of things sucking, and we break up again and i ruin something good with the new girl, so i told my ex that i am staying with my nrw gf. but i have not totaly decided yet. OH and i am movingg in next door to my ex with friends next month(mostly my new gfs idea, so i can live closer to her(she lives in the same city as m y ex)
please help hehe
thanks Advice
Stick with your new girlfriend.

From what you say, you love your new girlfriend and feel that you will be happier with her. That's a very strong clue that what you are doing is right.

And, if things don't work out with your new girlfriend, your ex will be right next door.

Good luck!

-- from George
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