Can I trust her???

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
My girlfriend is four hours away at school. She has allot of guy friends and when she goes out to the bars with them sometimes she will stay the night with them or they will at her house because they have drank too much! It makes me very jealous because I think she is doing something with them. I've asked her if she has and she gets mad at me and says no. Should I trust her??? Can I trust her??? Advice
You must trust her.

To have a good relationship you need a lot of good connections. Among these are mutual respect, communications, and trust.

Keep on talking with her about your concerns, but don't say you don't trust her. Whenever jealous thoughts enter your mind, drive them away by saying "She is my girlfriend and she loves me and wouldn't hurt me."

She has shown her trust in you by telling you what's going on, now it is your turn to return the trust and respect.

Good luck!

-- from George
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