Finances hurts relationship

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
we started out friends online and decided to meet. We fell for each other and met each other a few times over the next few months. We decided to move in together, I moved down to fl. to be with him. We had some money problems, he found out he owed the irs some money and he was way in debt with his credit cards and his parents couldnt afford to pay his college loan anymore they arent doing good either. anyway we broke up and i had to move back here. He held me one last time and the last night i was in the apt a guy was harrassing me on the phone and he came to stay with me so we had one last night together. He says this is for the best we need to get all our ducks in a row and since i had been mentioning college that i should go. We are gonna remain friends but he's busy getting all of our stuff out of the apt. and im so angry and im sure hes hurting so itll be a few weeks before we talk again. I don't know do you think there's any possibility of us getting back together? I'm sorry i didnt see any questions like this situation. sorry i hope its not too long. Advice
There is every chance that you can get back together again.

All it takes is for you two to maintain a long distance relationship. And, also for him to get his finances straightened out. Perhaps you should work as much as possible and save up some money to help out with money. Then plan to go to college in FL.

None of this will be easy, but if you two are in love it is possible.

I wish you the best of luck,

-- from George
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