Single, 47 year old guy still lives at home

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I meet a guy over the internet. at first i was not attracted to him in the least but he ask me out again and i said yes because he seems to have a good heart and now i do have deep feeling for him. but the problem is he is 47 yrs old and still lives at home. and to boot he has no money saved which i find odd. when i ask him why he has no money saved he says because he has health problems he has crowes disease but has it under control now. he has said we were going to buy a house several times but keeps backing out of it. because he lives at home and wont move out should i break up with him am i wasting my time we have been seeing each other for 2 and half years i am also 47 Advice
My advice is to let this one go. A single guy, 47, who still lives at home and who has saved no money is not a good bet. He even suggests buying a house together... where is he going to get the money? My guess is that he is set in his ways, has life served to him on a platter and he would expect the same from you. He also has health problems (Krohn's Disease) which could flare up again at any time. But if you feel differently... go for it.

Good luck,

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